Monday, September 10, 2012

September 2012 Mockingbird Times ? Mockingbird Society

Mockingbird Times

System ReformSystem Reform
Diamonique Walker

Educational Advocacy Helps Youth

Diamonique Walker

This year, Treehouse and the Mockingbird Youth Network collaborated to create the Educational Advocacy training targeting youth in high school or pursuing a General Equivalency Diploma (G.E.D). In the training, facilitators lead youth through a series of exercises and activities that are designed to help youth think about their goals and aspirations as well as obstacles they might face during their educational endeavors. Youth are also given a variety of tools to use to help them advocate and navigate through those obstacles. With this training youth are given a reference guide (A Youth Guide to School and Success) that offers specific information to help youth advocate for themselves from high school through college.

As the Mockingbird Youth Network digs even deeper and really hones in on system reform we find more ways to contribute and take part in making a change. Being a participant of the Educational Advocacy training may not seem like system reform, but it actually is. We are trying to fill in the gap so that youth won?t have to rely solely on others to be successful on their educational paths. One of the training?s objectives is to get youth involved with their future and become less dependent on the system as a whole. As an advocacy organization, we can?t stress enough how youth can be their own best advocates, given the right tools and coaching.

In the Educational Advocacy training there are some powerful and shocking statistics regarding youth in care and their educational success rates including: Only 44% of foster youth graduate, compared to the rate of 73% for the general population in Washington state.1 A mere 10% of foster care alumni go to college or vocational school, and of them, only 3% actually complete those programs by age 25.2 With outcomes like these, youth need to advocate for themselves to find the support systems, resources and stability to change these statistics.

Through the Network we promote activities that encourage youth to be active and productive citizens that are not only advocating on behalf of themselves but their peers as well.

The next Educational Advocacy training will be held September 8th at the Spokane Volunteers of America. For more information email Sarah Mahaffy at sarah@mockingbirdsociety.org

Source:

1. Burley, M. (2010). High School Graduation and Dropout Trends for Washington State foster Youth (2005-2009). Olympia, WA: Washington State Institute for Public Policy

2. Casey Family Programs foster care Alumni Study

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Pay It ForwardPower of One?
Amanda Bevington

Education is the Key

Amanda Bevington

Sometimes I wonder if youth understand the importance of their secondary education. Finishing high school and attending college are fundamental steps towards living a successful and independent adult life. Whether it?s a four year college, a community college, vocational or trade school, youth should pursue the highest level of training available in their professional field or area of interest. If you do not have an education then it is extremely hard to provide for yourself and family. The more education you have, the more money you will be able to earn.


Resources for Continuing Your Education

Treehouse for Kids
2100 24th Ave S # 200, Seattle 98144
(206) 767-7000

Volunteers of America ? Spokane
525 W. Second Ave., Spokane 99201
(509) 624-2378

College Success Foundation
1605 NW Sammamish Rd #200 Issaquah 98027
(425) 416-2000

Casey Family Programs ? Yakima
404 North Third Street , Yakima 98901
(509) 457-8197

Independent & Transitional Living Services
www.independence.wa.gov/education

I wish I had listened to people when I was younger about how much I need education to survive in this world, but regrettably, I didn?t. I was hard headed and needed to learn from my own mistakes. I ended up dropping out of high school at the end of 10th grade and tried to pursue my G.E.D. Unfortunately, I didn?t realize how hard the tests were and how long it would take me to even pass all five of them. At the time I was also working part-time at a fast food restaurant and homeless. This was not the life that I wanted to live, so by the 12th grade I dedicated myself to studying one-onone with a teacher to earn enough credits to get my high school diploma. Earning my diploma under these circumstances made me feel incredibly proud and accomplished.

After high school I had no idea what I wanted to do. I was still homeless and I was dealing with a series of personal crises. I tried different community colleges and vocational schools, but never could quite find my passion. By the time I was 22 I realized what I wanted to do and go to school for: a Master of Social Work degree. Specifically, I want to work with children and youth that have behavioral problems. Even though it took me a long time to figure out, I know now I want to become successful in life, earn enough money to support myself, and enjoy my career every day.

Education is hard but it does pay off. There are many programs that help youth succeed in school. S.E.A. (Seattle Education Access), Treehouse and College Success Foundation are just a few resources available. I would advise you not to wait until the last minute to continue your education. The longer you wait, the harder it is to earn that degree. Remember that you should always start early and set goals to prepare yourself for college.

If I could do it over I would have stayed in high school and listened to my teachers and school counselors. Let?s stop foster youth from becoming statistics and increase the college rates within the members of our community.

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Pay It ForwardPay it Forward?
Tianna Oliver

Youth Against Violence, Literally

The Youth Philanthropy Board of the Greater Tacoma Community Foundation was formed about two years ago as part of the Youth Against Violence Initiative. It has been using the experiences of youth to help reduce violence involving youth in our communities, as well as to find alternatives for youth who are in violent situations. Board members are given valuable life skills in business and the non-profit world, tools to become philanthropic and community leaders and many other skills that can help them further in life.

The board of about 12 youth age 15-24 was originally thought of after the tragic death of a young teenage boy. He was killed near one of Tacoma?s teen clubs, which was designed and funded to reduce youth violence by giving them a safe hang out spot they could go to on the weekends with their friends. The community was outraged by the proceedings and declared that Downtown Tacoma was not a safe place for young adults. World Vision, a program spearheading youth against violence alternatives came up with the idea of having a board of youth who could give their opinions, thoughts, and concerns about the issues surrounding youth and violence and their thoughts on how to fix these issues from their perspective. Thus the Youth Philanthropy Board was born.

On August 20th I had the opportunity to talk to three members of the board, Imari Romero, Vigo Beninger, Kenya Adams, and the Community Initiative Coordinator, Holy Chea. They all equally expressed how important being a part of the board is to them. The feeling of empowerment they get every time they get to express their own thoughts on an issue, and how people are actually listening to them because their opinion matters. They talked about how all these people of different walks of life, different religions, and ethnicities come together for one cause and really showcase how our communities are as a whole is really impactful.

Most of all they expressed how they want even more youth to become involved in the board and how it?s an easy process for someone who cares and really wants to make a difference to apply to be on the board. You?re not required to be an outstanding leader in your community or have great leadership skills. You just need to have the willingness to participate and the ability to commit and go to all of the meetings and trainings. Simply go to the website of www.gtcf.org and browse to the Youth Philanthropy Board tab and there you will find all of the information you will need to apply.

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Letter From the Editor by Jim Theofelis

Jim Theofelis

With the first day of school around the corner for thousands of children and youth, I cannot help but think about the many youth in care who will be entering classrooms at high schools, colleges and vocational schools across the state thanks to their own strength and dedication. I am proud of the fact that Washington state now rewards their perseverance by guaranteeing that youth pursuing their education will be able to maintain safe housing until age 21 through the Extended Foster Care program. Safe housing too often means the difference between a successful transition and a struggle for survival for youth aging out, and The Mockingbird Society will continue to fight to ensure that ALL youth in care have access to safe housing until age 21.

While the Extended Foster Care program has opened doors for many youth, there are still too many obstacles keeping youth in care from achieving academic success. Articles in this issue of the Mockingbird Times feature statistics showing an unacceptable high school graduation rate gap between youth in foster care and their peers, while college attendance rates are in the single digits for alumni of care. Children and youth in foster care deserve better and it is our collective responsibility as a community to ensure they have the same opportunity to succeed as their peers outside of the system. I look forward to working with our elected leaders in Olympia to ensure that educational achievement for foster youth does not fall through the cracks.

On Thursday, October 11th, we will hold our 6th Annual Benefit Luncheon at the Sheraton Seattle Hotel. I invite you to join us in celebrating our accomplishments, our impact, and our powerful youth who inspire change for thousands of our most vulnerable children, youth and families. The Mockingbird Society is an independent voice for sound public policy and practices, meaning we do not accept state funding for our advocacy work. We depend on supporters like you to build a strong community of champions, working together to build a world-class foster care system. Please register for our Benefit Luncheon online at our website: www.mockingbirdsociety.org.

Thank you for your unwavering support for children, youth and families.

Sincerely,

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Special ContributionSpecial Contribution
Miq?ueko Johnson

Olympia Youth Facilitate Powerful Culture of Foster Care Training

When I arrived at the Red Lion in Olympia, WA on August 3rd for the Reasonable Efforts Symposium, I felt a little nervous. But I was determined to send a message about the Culture of Foster Care. Five weeks of preparation came down to this one day; people will hear our stories about our lives in and out of the foster care system. While I practiced with my co-facilitators, Gerald, Talisa and Nicole, I felt nervous about advocating in front of so many people. My fellow chapter members, however, kept me motivated and on track. When we stepped into the large conference hall in front of about 90 people, I knew it was game time. The audience was not smiling at first but we sure were. Most people had no idea that they were about to go through a mini version of the foster care experience.

Co-Facilitators and Olympia leaders Miq?ueko, Gerald, Talisa and Nicole.

I began our training with an ice breaker activity, a modified version of ?Pin the Tail on the Donkey.? It was fun interacting with the audience and seeing them engage with each other. Through this activity I think they all learned what it feels like to grab for something only to have it not be there. We were demonstrating the importance of having a caring advocate that gives you good direction, information and guidance.

Telling our stories and listening to each other speak impacted all of us. I felt stronger and wiser. It felt good to have their attention and seeing them on the edge of their seats listening to us and participating. The feedback I received at the end of the training was my favorite part. Many told me they knew some of this, but they had not gotten to see it in depth before, not through our eyes. One CASA (Court Appointed Special Advocate) administrator told me she really liked what I had to say and asked me to become a CASA for foster youth. I would like to speak to youth in foster care to help them realize the things I did not know or understand when I was in foster care.

Across the mountains in Yakima, another group of young people with The Mockingbird Society were also hard at work preparing for their Culture of Foster Care training at the Reasonable Efforts Symposium in the Tri-cities area on August 17th. Yazmin Guinn, Roxxy Holden and Daniel Martinez shared with us their experience of giving the training to about 75 people. They also received positive feedback on their stories and the facilitation of the training activities. Daniel shared as a facilitator, ?The most impactful part for me was the Removal from Home activity. The looks that the participants got when they had to give up their stuff showed they understood what it?s like to have no control over your own belongings.? Yazmin reflected, ?What motivates me is I hear all these stories about kids constantly getting bounced around in the foster care system and I feel like if people hear my story, it?ll give them hope. I want to make a difference in the lives of youth like myself. What I?ll take away from the experience of presenting the Culture of Foster Care training is that even a few youth like us can make a difference when given the chance.?

On behalf of Gerald, Talia, Nicole, Yazmin, Roxxy, Daniel and I, thank you to the planners of the Reasonable Efforts Symposiums for giving us the chance to make that difference.

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Pay It ForwardPay it Forward?
Samantha McDonald & Deonate Cruz

Mockingbird Engages in National Reform

Leaders for Change Conference
Hosted by National Foster Youth Action Network

August 3rd ? 7th, 2012
California Lutheran University, Thousand Oaks, California

Participants: Key Issues:
? Nebraska Project Everlast
? Oregon Foster Youth Connection
? California Youth Connection
? Foster Youth Connection of Indiana
? H.E.R.O.S. of Massachusetts
? Washington Mockingbird Youth Network
? Group Home Accountability
? Using Social Media to Raise Awareness
? Sibling Involvement in Dependency Hearings
? Support Systems for LGBTQ
? Foster Parent Accountability
? Mental Health Accountability

Four national teams presented on topics they felt strongly were in need of reform. The Mockingbird Society?s Deonate Cruz is represented here with two youth from Oregon and one from Nebraska.

Samantha McDonald from The Mockingbird Society is joined by youth from H.E.R.O.S. of Massachusetts and Project Everlast from Nebraska.

Youth worked on a collaborative puzzle activity. The catch? No team had all the puzzle pieces that they needed. They practiced persuasive advocacy by going around the room and convincing other teams to exchange pieces.

Participants navigated a challenge course during a team building exercise. This team was guided by Samantha McDonald in a wheelchair; each person had to depend on the person in front of them.

Participants from Nebraska, Washington, California, Oregon, Massachusetts and Indiana have lunch with representatives from California Youth Connection (CYC).

Mockingbird Network Representatives met with Philip Bailey of the Earth, Wind and Fire band. Along with participants from the National Foster Care Network, they discussed strategies to form powerful connections using social media.

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System ReformSystem Reform
Amanda Bevington

Youth Meet with Representative Ross Hunter

Amanda Bevington

From left: Amanda Bevington, Representative Ross Hunter, Diamonique Walker, Jim Theofelis and Jon Brumbach

On August 1st a team of Mockingbird staff went to Bellevue to meet with Representative Ross Hunter of the 48th Legislative District. I was joined by Senior Network Representative Diamonique Walker, Public Policy and Communications Coordinator Jon Brumbach, Executive Director Jim Theofelis, and Director of Public Policy for Partners for Our Children Laurie Lippold.

At the meeting, we talked about the six different proposals that the Mockingbird participants presented at the Foster Youth and Alumni Leadership Summit in June. We were able to listen to Representative Hunter?s feedback and suggestions regarding each of these critical issues. Thank you Representative Hunter for your active support and passion for making the foster care and child welfare system a better and safer place for Washington?s youth.

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Art in ActionArt in Action
Kristina Thomason

Hoping for the Best


Upcoming

Seattle/King County Coalition on Homelessness Annual Youth Summit

September 10th
Yesler Community Center,
917 E Yesler Way, Seattle

September 11th
Seattle City Hall,
600 4th Ave, Seattle

For more information contact
Melissa King at melissak@friendsofyouth.org

Time to start over
Time to rekindle the relationships you?ve been denied
Wondering if they will like the person you have become
The last thing you want is to be a waste of time
Trying to remember the last memory you had before being taken
This isn?t going to be easy
what if the past gets brought up
the past i made myself forget
the fear of the unknown
the fear of rejection
the fear of being unwanted
maybe it?ll be a good thing
maybe they will like me
maybe it?ll be like nothing ever happened
maybe?

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We Welcome Your Work!

We welcome submissions of articles, poetry, artwork, and photography from our young readers who have experience in the foster care system and/or with homelessness. If you want to be published in the Mockingbird Times visit mockingbirdsociety.org, or contact us at (206) 407-2134 or via email at mbt@mockingbirdsociety.org. If you have submitted something before that hasn?t been published, we may need your submission agreement in order to publish your work. Please submit materials and completed agreement again via the email address listed above. Note: Any incoming letters to the editor and any correspondence to youth under 18 years of age should be addressed to the Mockingbird Times and will be opened first by adult editorial staff.

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system reformChapter
Voice

Everett Chapter Committed to Local Advocacy by Eden Francis Hottman-Nance

Region 2 North (Everett) ? H.E.Y.M.A.C. has renewed motivation and commitment after the Summit! At our chapter meeting in July we had a great Educational Advocacy training facilitated by our Resource Specialist, Kate Storms. During the training youth were asked to explain their educational goals and work through different scenarios in which they had to advocate for themselves academically.

Our August meeting started off with a game of Dixit, the game was used to demonstrate how a comment can be taken an infinite number of ways depending on the perception of the individual who hears it, which was a wonderful way to show how having so many perspectives in our chapter gives us the capacity for great understanding when we use our minds collectively. Later, we evaluated our experiences at the Summit, identifying our strengths and challenges. We also made Venn diagrams listing things that we are good at doing, things that we enjoy doing and things that our community needs from us. In the intersecting middle of the diagram we illustrated how those skills crossed over. We realized that we have the ability and drive to valuably contribute to our foster care community. When the individual diagrams were finished, one was made showing our collective skills and how they can benefit the foster youth, youth in kinship care and homeless youth in our community. We signed our names to this group diagram as a commitment to be passionate advocates.

Overall, we have had some great team building experiences in the last few months; we have also gained several new members! Looking back on all H.E.Y.M.A.C. has accomplished since the beginning of 2012, I think I can safely say that we are teeming with excitement for what opportunities for change and growth the upcoming months will bring.

Region 1 North (Spokane)
by Guillermo Mendoza

Spokane

On August 14th our chapter met with three of our Representatives from the Washington State Legislature: Representatives Andy Billig, John Ahern and Timm Ormsby. Senator Michael Baumgartner?s Legislative Assistant also joined us. We had a barbeque at Manitio Park and had a good turnout of about 30 people! We also had a goodbye party for our amazing outgoing Resource Specialist, Sarah Mahaffy.

CHAPTER

SNAPSHOTS

Chapter Voice

Region 2 South (Seattle)

Yakima

The Seattle Chapter is preparing representatives to participate in the Statewide Leadership Council meeting that will be held at Mockingbird headquarters on Saturday, September 15th. Participants are eagerly anticipating the hire of a new Resource Specialist this fall. The Chapter has shown great strength and flexibility in 2012 and looks forward to welcoming new participants and leaders in the months ahead. If you live in the King County area and are interested in participating in upcoming meetings and events, please email Mockingbird?s Director of Youth Programs, Fred Kingston at fred@ mockingbirdsociety.org.

Region 2 South (Yakima)
by Brandy Baxley

Tacoma

ACT FIRST had eight youth volunteers at the local Union Gospel Mission this month. We also had three members of our Leadership Team facilitate the Culture of Foster Care Training in Tri-Cities to approximately 70 service providers who attended the Reasonable Efforts Symposium. It has been a very successful and busy month for our chapter. Thank you to all of our great leaders!

Region 2 South (Olympia)
by Chris Bauer

Everett

The Olympia Chapter is always looking for new opportunities. This explains the excitement for the Transitions Training that was held in Olympia on August 23rd. Having the training locally allowed many young people to learn how to deal with changes and new situations. The training gives us more tools to tackle any challenge life throws at us.

Region 3 North (Tacoma)
by Tianna Oliver

Tacoma

At the August chapter meeting we discussed ways to move our Summit policy issue, protecting sibling visits, forward in the community. One solution we discussed is having youth talk to the new groups of foster parents during their training. We are also interested educating judges on this issue so that young people can be empowered in court to speak out about sibling visits.

Source: http://www.mockingbirdsociety.org/september-2012-mockingbird-times/

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